Saturday, September 20, 2008

Day 1, Lunar Month 7

We're coming down the home stretch, baby boy...so far in our journey together, here are some highlights of our adventure:

APRIL

Beginning of the month- We went to yoga class, took a trip to Slide Rock State Park and we hiked all over Squaw Peak Park. We ate our last meal of sushi and I drank my final glass of wine in celebration and anticipation that you might be real.

April 26- we were terrified to take the test to see if you really were real (like the Velveteen Rabbit) and even though I was over a week late, we were still in shock. This was the day we took two tests and got two bright blue +'s, confirming that our miracle had happened.

During this month, I was food craved at least every two hours and brought snacks with me everywhere I went. I had to wear a sports bra all of the time due to the pain in my chest. Developmentally, the buds of your arms and legs began to form as well as buds of the liver and pancreas. The aorta of your heart began to form and we began to fall in love.


MAY

Your heart started to beat and I became a stickler for eating all things good for us. Your mom celebrated her graduation and together, we began telling family and friends about you. Your brain began to develop and the intestines began to form and you now have eyelids!

May 22 - We took our first long road trip together to San Diego to meet your Tia Ana and your Aunt Chris and Anne who were meeting us in California from Virginia. We had a picnic at Balboa Park, walked around Little Italy and went to a party in Cardiff. Your Tia Ana took all of us to the spa for the day where we bathed in mud and salt baths (only up to my hips so the hot water wouldn't hurt you).

May 30 - We spent our last day at the Department of Education together. This was a healthy move for me and you were agreeable to the change.


JUNE

June 2- Today we heard your heart beat! We met our new doctor and she likes all of us very much and we feel confident she will take good care of us.

June 4- Your first trip to the Phoenix zoo with Aunt Paige and Uncle Justin - we met the giraffes, the rhinos and the warthogs!

Your fingernails are beginning to grow and your brain has developed the same structure it will have at birth, you can open your mouth and your tooth buds began to develop. By the middle of June, you were about 2 1/2 inches long.

June 17 - You got your first picture taken, we had an ultrasound and blood test and everything showed up perfectly!

June 20 - Your first camping trip north to Morman Lake to visit with Aunt Malaka and Uncle Kyle. We all stayed in a trailor and went fishing in the morning. Your mom caught her first fish!

We told your grandparents about you and they are SO excited!

June 23 - Your first cross country flight to Virginia. Your aunt Suzy knew you were on your way when I didn't order a beer at dinner! Aunt Chris joined us too ;)

June 26 - 1st swim in the Atlantic Ocean

June 28 - you met your Aunt Amy and cousins Hannah and Gracie for the first time


JULY

You can now turn your head, open your mouth, and press your lips together and you only weigh one ounce! You can make a fist, move your thumbs and bend your wrists. You can kick, turn your feet outward and inward and curl your toes.

July 2 - SURPRISE! Our family threw us all a surprise party in your honor!

July 6 - Your first theater performance- The Lost Colony

July 8 - 1st ferry ride to Okracoke

July 9 - Indiana Jones, your first movie

July 12 - meet your Aunt Jill, Uncle Jason and cousin Keira

July 13 - Virginia baby shower with all your family and friends

July 14- Mama kitty passed away :(

July 21 - First adventure at the water park! We went to Sunsplash with your cousins Gabby and Nathan


AUGUST

You sleep and wake as much as a newborn does. Your legs are developing to their final relative proportions and you are beginning to look like a minature newborn. Your face is peaceful with closed eyes, nostrils and a nicely formed mouth and you already know how to suck your thumb. (mommy won't encourage this practice once you are born, she struggled with it until she was six!)

August 3 - First visit to church

August 4 - Your first, first day of school

August 5 - Your mom gave me a massage, we loved it!

August 7 - YOU ARE A BOY! 4-D Ultrasound

August 8 - Beijing Olympics Opening Ceremonies with Paige and Justin

August 15 - I began to feel your movements :)

August 18 - Your first yoga class

August 22 - Your mom felt you move for the first time in my tummy!!

We started reading books to you before bedtime this month. I pulled out my books from my classroom and we enjoyed listening to stories together.

August 30 - Your SECOND cross country flight!


SEPTEMBER

You are moving more and more each day and you are getting ready for life outside my body. I notice your movements the most during the mid morning, lunchtime and evening hours. You have only kept me up one night so far, but even then it was only for a little while. When we went to see "The Dark Knight", the noises from the movie kept you moving and jumping. We are continuing to go to yoga classes twice a week. The community is so good for all three of us and we are enjoying this time together. We have registered for a birthing class, a breastfeeding class and a prenatal class along with a visit to the L&D unit at Good Samaritan. We are reading books at night and listening to the ipod before bedtime.

Labor Day Weekend - Visited Jill, Jason and Keira at their Montross house and spent the day by the water with Amy, Hannah and Gracie

September 1- Your first trip to Northern Virginia and your first Jimmy Buffet Concert!!

September 24 - Your first Ani DiFranco concert

September 26 - Your mom and I will celebrate our 5 year anniversary this day :)


The Labor Day Weekend Show




Making someone's dreams come true is exactly what we did this Labor Day weekend. Mom and Dad have been wanting for years to go see Jimmy Buffet in concert. I'm pretty sure Dad was Jimmy Buffet in another life, or certainly aspires to be! About a week before the show, I sent them an email about how to be a tailgaiting parrothead and a list of items to be packed for the concert. We headed out of Colonial Beach on Labor Day Monday, headed for the Nissan Pavilion. All of us had our Buffet shirts packed and ready to go and the coolers were full for our dinner. Tom Tom led the way straight to the venue and we pulled into the parking lot in the middle of a party already in session. There were men in grass skirts with coconut bras, shark tatoos, palm trees, beach balls and lots of Buffet tunes in the air. We set up our card table in preparation for our meal. We feasted on cheeseburgers in paradise - lettuce and tomato, kosher pickles and cold draft beers for everyone but me! I had a virgin margarita in the spirit of celebration. We topped off the meal with homemade chocolate chip cookies, packed up and it was time to head into the show. We couldn't take pictures inside the arena, but the show was absolutely outstanding - he played all of our old favorites and we listened to some new tunes that weren't familiar, but loved anyway. Got to love a guy who plays his concerts barefooted with beach balls being tossed around the fans. After the show we spent about an hour hanging out with other fans in the parking lot- thank goodness for the cookies that were left! All in all, the Labor Day weekend show was the ultimate dream come true for all of us.
Work, work, work
Big pile of it
and the boss is a jerk.
I just want to disappear
Wishin' I was somewhere other than here.
Livin' for the weekend,
Jumpin' off the deep end,
With just enough money to buy
A license to chill
And I believe I will
Let the rat race run, roll around in the sun until
Trouble turns funny, songs get sung
A little bit of money, the night's still young
Leave me alone
I've got a license,
A license to chill

Sisters


As I watch my nieces and reflect on my relationship with my own sister, I wouldn't trade having a sister for anything. We are so alike in so many ways and yet our life paths are so different in so many ways. Watching Hannah and Gracie is like having our childhood reflected right in front of us. They mirror so much of what Amy and I experienced growing up, from their personalities to how they play with each other. My sister is the only one who truly understands 'the family' in the same ways as I do. So many of our experiences are the same, but our memories are different. Hannah is like Amy, sensitive, loving, giving, caring. Hannah loves animals, babies and younger children. She is eager to please always lends a helping hand. Gracie is adventurous, bold, independent and loves making jokes. The bottom line is their love for each other. They each look out for each other, extend a hand of protection and want to know how the other is at all times. They laugh together, they cry together and they are building a lifetime of memories together, just like Amy and I. I love you, big sis!

Sweet Little Girls


"When I look back, I am so impressed again with the life-giving power of literature. If I were a young person today, trying to gain a sense of myself in the world, I would do that again by reading, just as I did when I was young."

~ Maya Angelou ~
August 31, Hannah and Keira at the Northern Neck Beach House